Look Good

Dear Sister Blessed,

We heard you recently gained admission into the University. Congratulations! We're very delighted and rejoice with you. We trust that you won't lose your Christian sanity in school because you were well taught about the vices and crazy life out there.

We have also received reports about the ‘sturvs’ happening in school. Oh yeah, we heard that some people especially your roommates have been a source of trouble to you. They keep disturbing you about your dressing. Some of your course mates have joined the disturbance team too.

What exactly is the trouble with your dressing sef? They complain you aren't 'current' and need to improve on your dress sense. We heard they have even taken it a step further by giving you a nick name mgbeke! Haaa! That's the height of it!

However, we heard you aren't giving in to their cheap talk and have decided not to go the way of the world in dressing. You have decided not to give in to the pressures around you. In this, we rejoice greatly.

Gloraaay somebody!

But, bia godu first… Give us five reasons backed up with evidence on why you had to bag this reputation in school? Could it be that the dressing is that terrible? Please, don't get the wrong ideas, but is there a slight chance you actually deserve the rants and name calling?

Let's be sincere a bit here...  Colour combo, you don't know. All your clothes seem to be owned by your grandma who is very large. And for some reason you have phobia for wearing tidy shoes. Your hair nko? Have you not been carrying that thread for like one month and most of it have all loosened.

Why exactly won't they keep telling you to quit your dress style and go crazy with your looks?

Now, even when you've got your dressing in check, how about confidence? It is one thing to look nice, it's another thing to walk with confidence.

Your carriage and poise is all part of the complete dressing. People can smell confidence level from a very short distance. When they size you up and see your level of confidence, then they can speak to you in a manner that is commensurate with your confidence level.

You see, your confidence level stems from the inside, when you keep telling yourself you don't look good, it rubs off on the external you.

How about you quit telling yourself you don't look good and learn to wear clothes that fit you better and are modest.

When people see you radiating in dressing, with a pleasant smile and 100% confidence, no one would come suggesting you go naked to look 'good'. Rather, you'd be admired.

Above all, never leave your confidence at home when stepping out.

Fashion Hack: Wearing v-necked clothes and tees give the illusion of longer torso. Plus, it also helps to hide the burst size for those who have large burst circumference.

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I remain your fashion decency advocate, Chinazom Francisca.